Resolving Depersonalization Derealization and Dissociation - Ben Meijer

Privacy Policy – Cookies – GDPR – copyright, General Terms and Conditions for Sale, etc.


Who we are

Our website address is: Ben Meijer is the owner and website admin. The company name is Realisatie Trainingen, based in the Netherlands.

My office address is:

Oude Apeloornseweg 41, Fissionparc, Oak Building, B213
7333NR Apeldoorn, The Netherlands.
My phone number is 0031-6-16015727
My Kamer van Koophandel (Chamber of Commerce) nr is 08115987.
My VAT number is NL001273007B68

I’m a member of the NIBIG therapy association, as well as a member of the EFT-Foundation in the Netherlands. I have trained people to become therapists, and trained therapists to use EFT in the Netherlands.

Contact forms

We use the information you provide on the contact form to establish contact with you by phone, email or a chat app, to answer your questions.


When you visit our website, we use functional cookies to track your visit. (WordPress and google analytics) We use this data for improving the functionality of the website (stats, traffic, errors), and to improve the performance of the website.
These cookies expire in 30 days.
No advertising, no third party cookies. We do not share or sell our cookies.

Embedded content from other websites

Articles on this site may include embedded YouTube or VIMEO videos. Embedded content from other websites behaves in the exact same way as if the visitor has visited the other website.

These websites may collect data about you, use cookies, embed additional third-party tracking, and monitor your interaction with that embedded content, including tracking your interaction with the embedded content if you have an account and are logged in to that website.

General Data Protection Regulations (GDPR)


Since 25 may 2018 the new law for privacy, the General Data Protection Regulations (GDPR) has come into effect for all of the European Union.

The GDPR replaces all previous country based laws. In the Netherlands, it also supersedes the Wet bescherming persoonsgegevens (Wbp). The GDPR talks about what is required, and what we adhere to, as well as explaining your rights. As a therapist, I’m also subject to the medical WGBO law of The Netherlands regarding patient client confidentiality.

The data I require from you is for billing

Your name
Phone number
Email Address

This is to provide you will a bill as a receipt of payment for the session. I do share the bills with my accountant, whom I have a data contract with. Bills will be kept as per legal requirements of 7 years for taxes.

Further information I need for the treatment sessions is mental health specific.  I will ask you to about your condition.

Responsibility and safety
It is your responsibility to share any relevant information about mood and emotions and mental health history and current issues. It is imperative you inform your therapist if you suffer from psychiatric diagnosed issues of personality disorders like borderline, schizophrenia and psychosis, bi-polar disorder as well as epilepsy. I can only take into account what I have knowledge of.
Please ask if you have any concerns about safety.

This data may be used to inform other mental health professionals at your request, and also for my required professional Intervision (with other mental health professionals, all anonymous and all have the same therapist-client professional confidentiality requirements.)


Your personal information is stored securely and confidentially, either electronically, using codes with password protection or in paper format which is stored in a locked cabinet, coded for protection. The data collected is used to enable effective communication during the therapeutic process, it is used in a safe and ethical manner and is in line with EU General Data.

As I do most of my work online using webcam software, you consent to sharing your information via skype, email, Whats-app or other chatting software. I strongly prefer to use current information each session. It is my goal to share all my notes during the session (using a chat software), so you can make optimal use of my notes. My goal is to empower you.

Protection Regulations (GDPR) May 2018.

It may become necessary to share your data with a authorities if I feel you, or someone else close to you, is at risk of significant harm. Unless the risk is imminent, this will be discussed with you before appropriate disclosure. I do have a legal obligation to break confidentiality in compliance with a court order, concerns over child protection and information or knowledge regarding fraud, drug trafficking or acts of terrorism.

Your contact details are held securely for up to 1 year after the therapeutic process has ended and session notes will be held securely and confidentially for 5 years after the therapeutic process has ended, at which point they will be deleted or destroyed accordingly.


You have the right to ask for a copy of your personal information, also the right to ask me to amend or change any incorrect information about you.


You have the right to ask me to erase any information that I hold about you. This includes your personal information that is no longer relevant to original purposes, or if you wish to withdraw consent. In all cases and when considering such requests, these rights are obligatory unless it is information that I have a legal obligation to retain.


As the client, you have the right to receive your personal information which you previously provided, and also have the right to transfer that information to another party. For the purposes of the General Data Protection Regulations (GDPR) May 2018, the data “controller” is Ben Meijer – Realisatie Trainingen.


I will ask you to sign this statement during our initial session to confirm you are happy with the way your personal information is being collected, stored and used.

What rights you have over your data

If you have any questions or want to exercise your rights, please do contact me.


Terms and conditions for ONLINE or in person ONE-on-ONE therapy.

Download the complete version of the terms  in the customer contract. When you purchase a session, these terms apply. The terms are based on dutch law regarding mental Health practitioners. (WGBO law + WKKGZ). 

General terms and conditions for the online Self Help Courses and Online webinars and taught courses

Standard Terms for the Purchase of

These terms and conditions apply to Services provided by Realisatie Trainingen, Chamber of Commerce number 08115987 of Oude Apeldoornseweg 41, 7333NR Apeldoorn, The Netherlands with the VAT number NL001273007B68, owner of the trade name: Depersonalization Treatment Therapy, and the website:  (“Realisatie Trainingen” or “we” or “us”). 

You may contact us on depersonalization.treatment AT (remove AT and replace with the @ sign and remove spaces) or on +31-6-16015727

These terms and conditions are in addition to the Website Disclaimer and apply to the sale of any Online Course and/or Taught Course.  Please read these terms and conditions carefully before purchasing an Online Course and/or Taught Course and print off a copy for your records.

If there is any conflict between our Website Disclaimer, these terms and conditions and any Course Specific Terms and Conditions which might apply to a specific Online Course or Taught Course then the conflict shall be resolved by applying the following order of priority:

  1. Course Specific Terms and Conditions;
  2. These Standard Terms for the Purchase of Online and Taught Courses;
  3. Website Disclaimer.

For purchases via our website, by clicking on the Buy Now and Accept Terms Checkbox  button you agree to the terms of this agreement which will bind you.  If you do not agree to these terms and conditions you must cease to continue to purchase any Services from us. 

1. Definitions

“Confidential Information” means information provided by one party to the other in written, graphic, recorded, machine readable or other form concerning the business, clients, suppliers, finances and other areas of the other party’s business or products, including, without limitation, the Course Materials, but does not include information in the public domain other than through the default of the party disclosing the information, information required to be disclosed by any court or regulatory authority, or any information already in the possession or control of the disclosing party.

“Course Materials” means the information provided by Realisatie Trainingen to accompany a course provided as part of the Services in hard copy or electronic form.

“Fees” means the fees paid by you to Realisatie Trainingen for the Services.

“Intellectual Property Rights” means copyright, rights in or relating to databases, patent rights, performers’ rights, designs and registered designs, trademarks, rights in or relating to Confidential Information and other intellectual property rights (registered or unregistered) throughout the world.

“Online Course” means the delivery by us of an online course pursuant to which you learn course materials remotely.

“Services” means the provision of the Online Course and/or the Taught Course and/or the Course Materials together with such other services as agreed from time to time and purchased by you through the Website.

“Webinar”means any course taught online via Webinar software

“Taught Course” means a course taught by us in a classroom setting to which you attend in person.

“Website” means

“you” means the individual purchasing the Services.

2. The Services

2.1. A description of the Services together with the dates on which the Services will begin are available on our Website.  We will provide the Services with reasonable care, skill and medical and psychological knowledge in accordance with the description set out on the Website.

2.2. We reserve the right to vary or withdraw any of the Services described on the Website without notice.

2.3 We expect you to confirm that the Services you are purchasing will meet your needs.  We do not make any guarantee to you that you will obtain a particular result (such as 100% cured) from your purchase and completion of any of the Services, although we do aim for the highest possible results (ie. Durable/lasting improvement, and 100% cured). Your results will vary according to the amount to time spent on each exercise across several days. There are checklists you can use to make sure you do every exercise.

3. Ordering Services

Purchasing Services via the Website

3.1. In order to purchase any of the Services on-line you must register for an account with us via the Website.  If you already have an account with us you can log into your account using your user name and password.

Purchasing Services

3.2 Right of Withdrawal: in the EU,  you as a consumer have the legal right of withdrawal for online services, within 14 days, for any reason and without a justification. To exercise your right of withdrawal, you are invited to notify us by e-mail of your willingness to forego the sale within the statutory 14 days.  Result: you will be refunded within 14 days from the date of the email to the same account you used when purchasing the product. There will be no charges for refunding.

3.3. When you place an order for a Service via the Website you are offering to purchase the Services on these terms and conditions.  Realisatie Trainingen reserves the right to cancel or decline your order or any part of your order at any time until it has been confirmed in accordance with clause 3.5 below.

3.4. Following receipt by us of your order for Services via the Website we will e-mail you confirming receipt of your order. 

3.5. A legally binding agreement between us and you shall come into existence when we have :
(a)    accepted your offer to purchase Services from us by sending you an email confirming the purchase; and
(b)    received payment of the relevant Fees from you in accordance with clause 5 below. 

3.6. Where your order consists of multiple Online Courses or multiple Taught Courses , each individual course will be treated by us as a separate offer to purchase.  Acceptance of your offer to buy one or more courses will not be acceptance by us of your offer to purchase any other courses which make up your order.

3.7. Realisatie Trainingen is not responsible for booking any medical or psychological examination with any professional or private medical or psychological organization for the purpose of establishing a diagnosis. Regulations differ per country as to the requirements for getting a (legally binding) medical or psychological diagnosis.  It is your responsibility to ensure that consulted a local medical professional to exclude other diagnoses.

4. Cancellation and Variation

4.1. Subject to clause 4.2 below, where we have accepted / confirmed the Services being purchased by you and formed a legally binding agreement with you in accordance with clause 3.5 above, then you are permitted within 14 working days starting on the day after the date we have concluded our agreement in accordance with clause 3.4, to cancel your purchase of the Services. 

4.2. If you have purchased an Online Course and have already accessed, downloaded all or part of the Online Course and/or started to use that Online Course then you shall have no right to cancel your order.

4.3. Notwithstanding clause 4.1 there is no other right to cancel or vary your purchase of Services and any other cancellation and / or variation of course dates will be at the entire discretion of Realisatie Trainingen.

5. Fees

5.1. The Fees for the Services shall be as set out on the Website at the time you placed an order for them. 

5.2.  The Services the Fees are inclusive of VAT.

5.4. Fees for the Service selected by you on the Website shall be debited from your credit / debit card at the time of purchase.  Fees must be paid in full prior to you accessing any Online Course.

5.5. Any fees charged by your debit or credit card provider in connection with your purchase of Services are for your own account and Realisatie Trainingen shall not be responsible for these.

5.6. You shall be responsible for all costs you incur in connection with your attendance at any Taught Courses or your access onto any Online Webinar Course.

6. Liability

6.1. No part of the provision of the Services shall be deemed to be, nor is it intended to be, nor should it be taken to be, the provision of medical advice.

6.2. Although Realisatie Trainingen aims to provide the Services to the highest standards of the industry, neither it, nor its trainers accept any liability for (i) any inaccuracy or misleading information provided in the programmes or Course Materials and any reliance by Client on any such information, (ii) any loss or corruption of data, (iii) any loss of profit, revenue or goodwill, or (iv) any indirect, special or consequential loss arising from any breach of the terms of this Agreement.

6.3. Except to the extent that they are expressly set out in these terms and conditions, no conditions, warranties or other terms shall apply to the Services.  Subject to clause 6.5 no implied conditions, warranties or other terms apply (including any implied terms as to satisfactory quality, fitness for purpose or conformance with description).

6.4. Subject to clause 6.5 below, Realisatie Trainingen total liability arising from or in connection with these terms and conditions and in relation to anything which we may have done or not done in connection with these terms and conditions and the delivery of the Service (and whether the liability arises because of breach of contract, negligence or for any other reason) shall be limited to the Fees received by us in connection with the relevant Online Course or Taught Course in relation to which a dispute has arisen.

6.5. Nothing in this Agreement shall exclude or limit Realisatie Trainingen liability for (i) death or personal injury caused by negligence, (ii) fraudulent misrepresentation or (iii) any other matter which under Dutch law may not be limited or excluded.

6.6. No claim may be brought more than six months after the last date on which the Services concerned have finished or ceased to be provided by us.

7. Intellectual Property

7.1. All Intellectual Property Rights in the Course Materials, Online Courses and the speeches made by trainers at the Taught Courses are, and remain, the intellectual property of Realisatie Trainingen or its licensors, whether adapted, written for or customized for the Client or not.

7.2. You are not authorized to:-

(i) copy, modify, reproduce, re-publish, sub-licence, sell, upload, broadcast, post, transmit or distribute any of the Course Materials without prior written permission;

(ii) record on video or audio tape, relay by videophone or other means the Online Course or Taught Course given

(iii) use the Course Materials in the provision of any other course or training whether given by us or any third party trainer;

(iv) remove any copyright or other notice of Realisatie Trainingen or Depersonalization Treatment Therapy on the Course Materials;

(v) modify, adapt, merge, translate, disassemble, decompile, reverse engineer (save to the extent permitted by law) any software forming part of the Online Courses.

Breach by you of this clause 7.2 shall allow us to immediately terminate these terms and conditions with you and cease to provide you with any Services, including but not limited to access to the Online Courses.

7.3. In consideration of the Fees paid by you, we grant to you a limited, non-transferable, non-exclusive license to use the Course Materials and the software in respect of the Online Course for the sole purpose of completing the Online Course and / or attending the Taught Course.

8. Confidentiality

8.1. Each party shall keep the other party’s Confidential Information strictly confidential and not use it otherwise than for the purposes of these terms and conditions, and shall return it on demand and not retain copies of it.

8.2. Either party may disclose Confidential Information to its legal and other advisors for the purposes of obtaining advice from them.

8.3. This clause shall continue notwithstanding termination of these terms and conditions.

9. Termination

9.1. We shall be entitled to terminate these terms and conditions and cease to provide you with any Services with immediate effect in the event that you:

  1. fail to pay when due your Fees;
  2. act in an aggressive, bullying, offensive, threatening or harassing manner towards any employee of Realisatie Trainingen, any teacher or lecturer who provides the Taught Courses or any student who attends any Taught Course;
  3. cheat or plagiarise any work which you are required to prepare or submit in connection with the Services;
  4. steal or act in fraudulent or deceitful manner towards us or our employees or any other students who may be on our premises or attending our Taught Courses;
  5. intentionally or recklessly damage our property or the property of our employees or other students attending our premises;
  6. are intoxicated through alcohol or illegal drugs while on our premises;
  7. commit any criminal offence committed on our premises or where the victim is our employee or student;
  8. are in breach of these terms and conditions.

9.2. On termination clause 6 (liability), 7 (intellectual property rights), 8 (confidentiality) and 10 (restrictions) shall continue notwithstanding such termination.

10. Assignment

Any Services provided by us under these terms and conditions are personal to you and cannot be transferred or assigned to any other person.

We shall be entitled to assign these terms and conditions to any other company without prior notice to you.

11. Entire Agreement

 These terms and conditions, together with the Website Disclaimer and Course Specific Terms and Conditions are the entire agreement between the parties and supersede any prior agreements and arrangements, whether written or oral. You confirm that you have not relied on any representations in entering into these and any other terms and conditions with us.  Nothing in this clause or terms and conditions shall limit liability for any fraudulent misrepresentation.

12. Force Majeure

Realisatie Trainingen shall not be liable to you for any breach of its obligations or termination under these terms and conditions arising from causes beyond its reasonable control, including, but not limited to, fires, floods, earthquakes, volcanoes and other Acts of God, terrorism, strikes, delay caused by transport disputes, failure to provide a course caused by a death in the trainer’s family, illness of the trainer, Government edict or regulation.

13. Assignment

We may assign, transfer, sub-contract any of our rights or obligations to any third party at our discretion, (e.g. our accountant, the IT services we contract for website hosting, website security, etc).

14. Data Protection

14.1 The nature of the Services provided by us means that we will obtain, use and disclose (together “Use”) certain information about you (“Data”). This statement sets out the principles governing our Use of Data. By purchasing the Services you agree to this Use.

14.2 When you register with us you will need to provide certain Data such as your contact details and demographic information. We will store this Data and use it to contact you, provide you with details of the Services you have purchased and otherwise as required during the normal provision of the course.

14.3 We may also use the above Data, and similar Data you provide us in response to surveys, to aggregate user profiles and, unless you click on the relevant button on the Registration Form, provide you with communications. We will not pass any personal data onto anyone outside of Realisatie Trainingen, with the exception of needing to pass the information to our third party accountant with all the billing information, and the third party IT services for the hosting and internet security.

14.3 To enable us to monitor and improve our Services, we gather certain aggregated information about you, including details of your operating system, browser version, domain name and IP address, the URL you came from and go to and the parts of the Website you visit.

14.4. We use information such as your User ID, session identifiers and password to enable us to identify whether you are using our services, assist with the provision of services and to ensure that you have access to relevant products. We will only read cookies from your cookie file placed there through your web browser’s interaction with the Website.

14.5. Our products may link to third party websites *such as YouTube and Vimeo) and we are not responsible for their data policies or procedures or their content.

14.6. Realisatie Trainingen endeavor to take all reasonable steps to protect your personal Data including the use of encryption technology, but cannot guarantee the security of any Data you disclose. You accept the inherent security implications of being and transacting on-line over the internet and will not hold us responsible for any breach of security.

14.7. If you wish to change, update or want to erase the data we hold about you, please e-mail  depersonalization.treatment AT (remove AT and replace with the @ sign and remove spaces) or contact us on +31-6-16015727.

15. Law and Jurisdiction

This Agreement is subject to Dutch law (The Netherlands) and the parties submit to the exclusive jurisdiction of the Dutch courts in connection with any dispute hereunder.

16. Notices

You can contact us by any of the following methods:

E-mail: depersonalization.treatment AT (remove AT and replace with the @ sign and remove spaces)

Post: Oude Apeloornseweg 41, Fissionparc, Oak Building, B213
7333NR Apeldoorn, the Netherlands

Telephone: +31-6-16015727.




I use professional photos of myself made by Jose Kuipers
My YouTube videos are made by Giel Rozillio
I also use stock photos from ShutterStock, whom I have bought the content from.

If there is every question about the copyright of any image, please contact me immediately.

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